Being part of a wedding is definitely an exciting experience, especially if you’re a close friend or a member of the couple’s family. The ceremony is the most anticipated moment of the day because the newlyweds get to say their vows and exchange rings. Everybody wants to see the bride’s dress and admire her walk down the aisle. But the next significant part is when the two of them declare their love to one another. This moment is or should be memorable for both the couple and their invitees. Those who decide to have a religious formal ceremony are usually more stressed about saying their words.
A formal affair is requires more eloquence, decency and elegance in words and behavior. This is why those who are getting married in church may be more shy and overwhelmed with the pressure of saying the right words without causing an unpleasant scene. There is no room for mistakes and no room for inappropriate jokes. However, you can still be hilarious without making any inopportune allusions. You can focus on a more romantic declaration to suit the venue. Your ceremony words don’t need to be very formal and impersonal just because the location is very strict and elegant. Feel free to speak your heart. Women always appreciate sincerity in a man. So make sure you won’t disappoint her on the most important day of her life!
Think ahead what type of message you want to convey. Don’t forget that your words will be the commitment you swear to your spouse. Choose meaningful words and not cold words that have nothing to do with your relationship or way of thinking and behaving. When you choose to speak from your heart your vows will be even more beautiful than the traditional ones. Say a few words that can reach the heart of your betrothed. Don’t struggle to find an elaborated message that no one will really understand. Keep it simple, short and sweet. This is the best time to get personal, so don’t forget to let your spouse know just how much you love her and how you can barely wait to spend the rest of your life with her.
The wedding vows that describe the intensity of your love are always tasted by the audience. You can go as juicy as you wish, but make sure to take into consideration the location and the formality of your wedding ceremony. If you’re getting married outdoors, you have more freedom to use humor and incorporate a few personal jokes. If you want to go religious and meaningful, use bible verses or other religious quotes. If you’re an artist or love poetry, use your favorite lyrics and adapt them to suit your relationship.