How To Avoid An Odd Wedding Ceremony
Most of the couples who refuse hiring a wedding planner or consulting a wedding expert for their upcoming special event risk turning their wedding ceremony into a big mess and therefore to make all their guests and friends feel a big disappointed. So, if you don’t want to get a poor wedding ceremony just go and ask a wedding specialist which are the best suggestions to follow. Also, try to find out the mistakes you must avoid before planning the ceremony. As you already know, you should first find the right person to marry you. Here, there are plenty of alternatives, including your best friend, your best office colleague or even neighbor could do that especially if he or she has been supporting you in every tough situation.
Either you get married at the city hall or on the beach, you should invite all your friends and guests so that they can witness your wedding and ‘speak now or forever hold their peace’. Of course, the ceremony doesn’t come alone and there are plenty of other details that should turn the moment into a very romantic one. Also, the location must be decorated in the best way possible, otherwise the event might not be too memorable. Moreover, the floral arrangements and the seats should also be well organized so that your guests can feel the moment.
There is an important things to say here, namely that you should ask your friends not to interfere in your marriage and to respect all your decisions, either good or bad, and promises you make to each other. Apart from this, your families should always stay around you just like they do every day. The vows are very important, too and before you go into the ceremony make sure that although you don’t know where to begin you will surely manage to do it well. First of all, you should welcome every person who has travelled from far and near and thank them for their presence.
Indeed, this message belongs to the officiant but you can have a few words, as well. Moreover, the music plays a very important role, too, and here we would recommend hiring a very good and experienced DJ able to play the proper songs for this moment. Of course, the volume must be set low, otherwise you might turn the ceremony into a unpleasant moment.
Here, we would also recommend playing more classic songs and artists, including J. S. Bach and R. Wagner. There are plenty of couples who get married accompanied by ‘Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring’ and ‘Bridal Chorus from Lohengrin’ written by the latter one. Of course, you may opt for modern songs, like ‘Enya’s ‘only Time’ and Norah Jones ‘Come Away With Me’, but it all depends on your music taste.