Important People In A Wedding Ceremony
For many couples making the invitation list remains one of the toughest things to do when planning the special event because you must be sure you invite the ones to whom you feel very close. Given this, there are people you shouldn’t forget including in the list. Of course, you start the list with all the family members, including relatives like aunts, uncles, grandmothers, grandfathers, cousins and so on. Also, you shouldn’t skip your closest neighbors in case you have some and all those persons who have meant a lot in your life. Anyway, it is very important to think of all those persons who already invited you at their wedding but also to try to understand all those friends and potential guests who will not be able to be there for the special event.
So, this shouldn’t annoy you even if you have already ordered menus for them, too. To avoid this situation, you can ask your friends and guests to let you know about their decision or give you the confirmation until a certain date, otherwise things might bet unpleasant especially for you who want them to come badly. But this doesn’t mean that you won’t face any surprises. More precisely, there are persons who can not make it for the wedding and who do not want to tell you for some reason. Even in this case, you shouldn’t get too upset because this might make you feel sad just before the wedding, which is the last thing you expect to happen.
Another reason for which some of the guests won’t be there is your absence from their wedding. So, if you skipped a good friend’s wedding expect to face the same treatment from all those who want to get a ‘revenge’. On the other hand, you must forgive all those friends who have financial issues or those who have promised to attend another wedding on the same date. Apart from this, you might face some difficulties when making the invitations which regards the persons whom you don’t know whether to invite or not at the special event.
All those persons who meant a lot in your life but to whom you haven’t talked to for a very long time are part of this situation. So, make sure that the list includes all the guests and friends who helped you in difficult situations when you were a youngster or more recently. Although you didn’t stay in touch with them they might feel flattered to be part of the wedding so it would nice of you to give them a phone and invite them at the ceremony. Finally, we would like to give you yet another piece of advice: do not invite all your ex-boyfriends and/or girlfriend because the big event might turn into a big chaos.